Using Emotion as a Leadership Tool! A lesson from MLK!

The wizards at Inc. Magazine posted a great article on Martin Luther King this morning.  Terrific acknowledgement of King's birthday, and an offering of continued gifts we all get from great leadership.

The link is here, I'll let you read it yourself.

The point?  I watch a lot of leaders attempt to hide their emotion, deny anger or frustration, even deny celebration or right things done right.   The Inc story here offers the reader, yes, each of us, to acknowledge the emotion.  THEN choose behavior that moves your team or brand or self forward.  

This skill of "stepping into what I feel" owning the feeling without getting hooked by the drama of the emotion, or the angst or short sightedness of an emotion, negative or positive, can support each of us to stay in balance and lead from inspiration and awareness instead of simply being "emotional" with any sort of "negative connotation.  

I'll stop here.  Celebrate the day today, clear vision, the ability to move people, even a nation, from clarity through the ability to own feelings instead of deny or denegrate!   

Here's to greatness!

http://www.inc.com/hitendra-wadhwa/great-leadership-how-martin-luther-king-jr-wrestled-with-anger.html?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=Feed:+inc/headlines+(Inc.com+Headlines)

 

 

 

 

Thanks for Conscious Communication & Conscious Leadership!

There are three parts to this story.  Background, a moment of truth, a bigger truth.  

Background: Just a few days ago I was in Seattle being driven from downtown back to the airport. My driver, "Thomas" was from Ethiopia, in the US for the last 13 years... 

Thomas shared with me a story of his uncle, already in the US begging Thomas' father to allow his son to come to America.  Long story short, the father said yes in the midst of civil war that still rages on.   Thomas is from a small tribal village, to get to a city was a three day walk.  The first time he ever used a phone was 13 years ago, when he called his uncle in the US.  Figuring out how to use the phone is its own story.  Thomas, laughed at himself when he told me this story, he shared, "When I heard my uncle's voice, the first thing I asked him was, how many camels and goats he had."  He went on, "My uncle didn't laugh at me.  Instead there was a very brief moment of silence and my uncle simply responded with what sounded like a smile on his face, "You will have much to learn here Thomas, and all will be well." 

A moment of truth:  Thomas could not get in to the US directly. As a refugee, he first needed to move to another country to gain access to the US.  Once here, the learning curve was steep as you can tell from the story of the phone, camels and goats.   At this point, Thomas and his uncle are teh only two of his family to be in the US.  Thomas is eloquent.  He shared with me he's working on his US citizenship.  It's clear in his dialogue with me that he knows more than most folks I speak with about how and what the governing body of Washington DC does (or has more recently been the case, does not do.)   And more so, I was struck with how easily Thomas drove the black suburban in heavy traffic and in the rain to the airport.  The act of driving itself, using turn signals, flipping on windshield wipers without thought, in flow.   This is a man that only 13 years ago, had not used a phone or been in a car, yet knew more about camels than I ever will.

A bigger truth:  I found myself learning alot from this driver in the 30 minute trip.   He shared with me his experience of promises unkept by our nations leaders being not so dissimilar to promises unkept in his home nation, rations with united nations or red cross logos stamped being sold in stores instead being provided with the original intention of provisions for those starving.   

Thomas mentioned a driving force in both nations, greed.   As I listened, my learning was enlivened by something I've been writing about for the last few months, the balance between the "I" and the "We".   

No doubt our amazing country was founded on freedom for the "I"... and that "we" as nation are free (defining free is another topic)... 

What I learned from Thomas was simple reiteration, like a village, WE live in a country that is far more complex than it was 300 years ago, far more crowded than it was 300 years ago and in a world that is equally more complex and crowded.   Seems to me that WE have to figure out how to balance the "I" that is so dear to each of us with the "WE" that is soooooo critical for all of us to not just survive, but to thrive... 

Thanks Thomas.  Who knew?  If I/we stay conscious and awake, there is learning everywhere.  And its critical to remember that as crazed as our life and our country is in many ways these days, we still, certainly have a ton to be thankful for.

I am deeply, thankful for you, your time, your energy and care.   I and WE are critically important!

Happy Thanksgiving!

 

 

 

 

 

 

Conscious Communication: Define Excellence!!!!

There is no longer such a thing as common sense.   Get over it.  So, the clearer you are about your expectations, the clearer you are.  I recommend you be resolutely clear.  Although you believe what you’re thinking is obvious, it’s not.   You want high performance?   You’d better define what high performance means.  And by the way, you’d better be explicit! 

“Whenever you see a successful business, someone once made a courageous decision.”  - Peter Drucker

At a time when we’re all being called to move faster, make quicker decisions, one of the most courageous acts I experience these days is my clients making the conscious choice to slow down to speed up.   Anytime we hear anything smacking of jargon we hit the pause button,” says Chicago land restaurateur, Nick Sarillo.   “For us, jargon means words like “professional”, “excellent”, “great”, “clean”, “great attitude.”   Nick continues, “My team’s trained now to stop when ever someone tosses out an adjective or noun as a “truth.”  For example, in any given situation, what does “excellent” mean?   Excellence is redefined hundreds of times in our company.  Excellence is explicit, rather than implicit in each task.  This act of definition, challenging as it is, has created an outcome for us of shared definitions.  Ownership attitude develops within our company as “I” statements and becomes “we” statements.  We actually create common sense by working from multiple definitions to one shared definition.”   The outcome of all this effort on the part of Nick and his team is an explicit Culture internally and an explicit Brand Experience focused externally, for customers.   Instead of employees sitting waiting to be told what to do, team members take an active role in actions that improve guest experience and profitability all at the same time.  

The outcome I’ve seen at Nick’s and over the years in hundreds of cases, is the nuance between Figure 1., struggling with performance due to “what ought to be common sense” and Figure 2.  Working with shared definitions of excellence that are explicit!

Figure 1.  Depending on Common Sense

Figure 2.   Shifting from common sense to explicit shared definitions of excellence!

“Whatever you can do or dream you can, begin it.   Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it!” - Goethe

Goethe’s famous quote is one of my favorites.   Thus, supporting clients to turn dreams into achieved goals in a milieu of industries and industry segments has been a wild and amazing ride.   At the same time, I’ve not experienced the process (dream to tangible goal to measurable success) to be so urgent, so tangible or more pragmatic than in the last two and half years thanks to the horrific economy in which we’re all in the midst.

From experience then, Figure 2 integrates powerfully with Figure 3.   Being explicit with attitudes and actions, choices made and behaviors observed, A+ performance evolves and grows.   What would have been an A+ candidate a year ago wouldn’t even be even make the team this year.    Let’s go deeper.

As you look at Figure 3, the leader and leadership team are on display!  If common sense is dead, so too is the old leadership axiom, “Do as I say, not as I do.”  From all I can tell these days, behavior is everything and talk is cheap.   And, “Behavior is everything” seems to be more-true all the time.

Here’s how Figure 3 works:  The decision is made, “We’re going left!” (note the direction of the horizontal arrows).    The 1% column at the left of the bell curve is that segment of your work force that simply and resolutely follow, “Yes Ma’am, I’m headed left!”  If tomorrow you said, “We’re headed right,” these folks would be at your side.   

The next column over, 14% of your work force are typically what would be called, your “players.”   With shared, clear reasoning, they are with you, moving clearly and doing all they can to support you moving “left” as diligently as possible.  The clearer YOU are, the more effective their work and focus.    (This is where figure 3 aligns with figure 2 strongly.)    At column 3 you have 35% of your work force.  These folks are watching you closely, ready to go into drama because you switched course or didn’t do what you said you would.   This 35% of your team are what my colleagues and I call, “wind checkers”.   “Wind checkers” are exactly that.  Where the wind blows is where they’ll go.   And if you said you’re headed left and you go right, you’ll hear about it from this 35% of the staff.   Note that with this 35% you have critical mass, 50% of your work force at any given time.    And from here this model gets interesting.

On the backside of the critical mass line is another 35% of your staff.  If the column left 35% is checking the wind for a couple weeks to see if you’re really serious about what you said you were going to do, this group is watching diligently for months.  They are checking for the slightest wind movement in any other direction and they’re ready to pounce on any miss step.   Usually these folks are not looking in a mirror, that is, they don’t really pay attention to themselves, these participants are ready to blame anyone or anything else for any possibility of disbelief that “We’re going left!”

Move over another column, 14% are actively plotting, never really satisfied you’re changing anything… they’ve been with you for years or have been doing the same job for years and “know how its done.”   You have nothing to tell them they don’t already know.  This segment of your staff is likely digging heels in as you work to shift performance.   Last column right is a bomb building 1% that is still around, really, I’m not sure why?  Are you?    If wind checkers are the middle columns of varying degrees and equal +/- 70% of your team, this extreme right 1% is actively encouraging drama on a daily basis.  Most anything other than positive energy and you have this 1%.  

The ultimate irony, even in bad times, is that most of your managers are spending time trying to coach and convince the 15 – 50% on the right hand side of the bell curve to please join in the new direction.  

Let’s tie the beginning and end of this column together.   If I and we are resolutely clear about where we’re headed AND in slowing down to define excellence in each step along the way three things happen:

1.     The process of definition becomes a skill set in itself and the process gets faster and more efficient.   So two outcomes occur: we have common definition AND we get to definition faster.  To use a high-speed metaphor, we learn to build the plane as we’re flying it safely.  

2.     Performance becomes exponential figure 2 comes alive.  At the same time, we are so clear about our performance that the wind checkers and bomb makers in figure 3 opt out on their own, because we are so clear about what excellence is and is NOT, those players on the right of figure 3 have no energy, they simply drop off.

I invite you to pay attention to jargon and define what you mean by excellence or professional.  When you find yourself using the term common sense for something you’re thinking write down the phrase, thought or action.   Take the time to experiment and actually find out if you have shared definitions.   My bet is that you will not as often as you do.  Getting to a shared definition of “excellence” (or any other term you want to explore) will sharpen the tip of your “arrow” no matter which direction you’re headed!  

 

Figure 3.   Clear performance expectations, leadership behavior: Beware the role of the “wind makers” and the “wind checkers”

msnbc video: Slice of life: Community steps up to save pizzeria

What a treat!  There's a link at the end of this post that I wish you to see AND share!

1. This story is ALL about the WE instead of simply "I" as the owner, I as the boss... instead, WE are in this journey together, WE have stories to tell from being real, from being caring to guests, and guests to their families, and guests to their guests... all trusting, all celebrating... 

Then, because of consistent behavior and experience, there is no "crying wolf"... there is no poor me... there is only pull up our pants and get to work, share, collaborate, reach out, BE real. 

2. Ironic is that the day Nick offered his note to his frequent guest list (16,000 members for 2 restaurants) was the very action Nick wanted never to happen: in Colorado a very different approach occured... a Papa John's franchise owner closed 72 restaurants without any notice; not only where this operator's guests impacted, the staff for 72 different restaurants showed up for work and the doors were closed with no notice, not a word.  Can it get worse?  Yes.  It was payday and no paychecks went out to the staff of 72 restaurants... the owners' comment was full of legal reasons, stories and excuses... 

3. Back to Nick's... no reasons, stories, or excuses here.  Instead Nick has shared his story straight up with guests.  Because he has open books and profit sharing that has worked prior to the crash, his team has known all along the status of the company... and here you have this amazing news clip, not just on local news, or regional news.  Nick's IS a national case study!

4. WE are connected folks.   WE make business and community work IF WE reach out and connect.   Connection, Truth, Care... BE on Purpose... this can be the future.

My best to you as you've taken the time to read and I hope, share, this blog post!
Rudy

Steve Jobs dropped his body? Really? really?... What an impact!

What I'll share here may sound like a story about me, it is not.  It IS a story in support of celebration and acknowledgement of Steve Jobs and Apple; mine, like millions of folks, is also a story of change and evolution... and likely a thanks to Jobs... 

In 1986 I headed to grad school.  The reasons are irrelevant.  I'd already proved myself in the world of work as a young consultant with a strong positive track record.  It made sense to go to grad school.  No big deal.  Except, I was expected to have ALL my work turned in typed.  The data is this: I had no idea how to type, and I'd never even conceived of taking typing in high school, god forbid. 

Simultaneously the impact to me of having to type was exacerbated by something that was both tragicially hip and cutting edge; a thing called a "computer lab" was in place.  This lab was for the grad students only.  Wow, for a guy that barely made it through high school, now somehow in grad school there is a new thing available only to the "elite", a computer lab.  What was in place for us in this computer lab?  At the time, IBM was too big to put anywhere except in a warehouse. The computer lab was full of desk top computers: Apple IIE's all there for my (and our) personal unlimited use.  

My first experience was frustration beyond belief; then not so slowly excitement.   Cut to the chase, at first I wrote everything by hand and then transcribed to the computer.  At first I spent hours typing, really hours correcting two fingered keyboard stroking.  As months evolved I watched myself began to edit my hand written words as I read them typed.   I spent 12 hour days in the computer lab teaching myself to type and to learn this new apple thing-a-ma-gig computer thing.  And late night over a glass of wine with friends I could laude "using a computer."... 

By my last few months of grad school, I'd come to working about 75% in handwriting then transcription, with an amazing 25% of free flow thought through my fingers on the computer.  I made so many mistakes and lost SO MUCH DATA along the way.  And the joy of saving all my data on a 5.25" floppy disk was so amazingly cool... 

Cut to the chase, by 1996 I was typing by touch easily and "thinking" out loud on my keyboard as often as on 8.5x11 paper.  By now I am thinking more effectively (most of the time) on the keyboard than on paper.  And I'm typing this very second on a macbook pro; I've talked and texted today too many times to count, on my IPHONE; and when I ride my road bike, what inspires me is music playing through my IPOD...

This week my clients have counted on reports, comments, support and forms sent through and by the tools invented and evolved over a very fast 26 years.  26 years.  Thanks Steve!  Thanks Apple team... 

To my clients, friends and colleagues... thanks for your patience with my on going learning and excitement stepping into the new... we are blessed.   My best and blessing to the Jobs family and the family of Apple.   

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Chicago's Best of Northwest Suburbs: NIck's Pizza & Pub - cltv.com

Check it out!!!!
Nick's Purpose & Values driven business culture kicks it!!!!!   In this economy, they're up 12%... and the team guides themselves with managers as coaches in stead of acting like cops... 

http://www.cltv.com/blogs/chicagos-best/wgntv-chicagos-best-of-northwest-suburbs-nicks-pizza-pub-20110907,0,5325743.story


I'm honored to have these guys on our client list, walking their talk!  What a terrific example of our work on Purpose and high performance!


Interested in how you can do this too?  Call us!
Rudy

Lessons on contact: Pret A Manger vs. Panera

Check out this link!

At 500MM + per annum, Pret a Manger is hardly a start up.  At the same time the concept is relatively new to the US.   The big news for me is the nuance of Pret a Manger's message:  "You'll get a real smile from us!"  "You'll get a real connection with us!"

When Panera is running ad's celebrating the fact that you and I get to enjoy their food on real china and real silverware, "Pret" is talking about real connection with real people.   Panera, sadly, dares not go there.      

This whole story brings me back to the root definition of the word restaurant, a place one goes to be restored... restaurateur, restorer of soul.  Oh, by the way, Pret a Manger translates to "ready to eat"... 

This whole thing of brand experience happening at EVERY point of contact with a guest, customer, member is real for any industry, not just restaurants... 

http://www.nytimes.com/2011/08/07/business/pret-a-manger-with-new-fast-food-ideas-gains-a-foothold-in-united-states.html?_r=1

BE in touch!   I'd love to hear from you!
R

Rudy Miick, FCSI, CMC
Founder, President 
Miick & Associates 
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Branding from the Inside Out! On Purpose!

Panera's hitting hard, 40M in marketing dollars focused on the "soul" of their brand, the artisan bread and that you and I as guests will leave feeling different than when we arrived.  My translation is that the Brand promise is to leave not just different because we're full, rather because we've been served in such a way, treated in such a way as to be restored!    God, I love it!    Now IF they can just deliver the Brand experience they promise... 

If you've followed my work at all, speaking, writing, this essence of Purpose IS how the Miick Brand has so successfully supported companies around the country and world perform at record levels.   That said, I applaud Panera!   Yi, Ha!  

3 parts here then:

Part 1.  The driver of Brand!  As Simon Sinek so simply states: The "WHY"

The definition of the word restaurant started the whole Business on Purpose, Explicit Business Culture ride for me over 20 years ago now: unabridged dictionary definition:

Restaurant: "a place one goes to be restored";

Restaurateur (there's no "n" in restaurateur): "Restorer of Soul"

In the moment and I love it truly, Panera's push is from the outside in, "here we are, here's our service promise!"   please deliver guys!

 

Part 2.  Culture by definition: The How (one of the)

In my experience, every day performance isn't explicitly coached from Purpose, performance happens by accident, happen stance; each day that goes by without explicit support the brand message slips a bit... this effort, impact can NOT be policed.   Inspiration and positive coaching IS the only driver that pulls brand/Culture forward consistently.  (Think about newtonian physics (gravity) vs. quantum physics (atomic energy)... any time the intention of vision/what can be isn't lived, the every day life experience of reality tv, weak education and bad economic times sucks us backward... gravity wins)   

What I've learned working with Franchisees the last couple years is that if the Corporate Brand, the Culture of the BRAND isn't resolutely clear, then the culture of the franchisee will pull harder than the brand, if the franchisee isn't as strong as their managers the manager's cultural habits win; no management strength/focus, the staff/neighborhood culture sucks the brand out... 

Back to Panera then: If the last two paragraphs are even close to true, Panera's staking a whole lot of dollars on a brand message that is easily NOT going to get support at the local level, by local managers and district managers, unless those folks are radically supported to dare I say it, "BE on Purpose!"...  

 

Part 3.   Simple, not easy!  Brand from the Inside out, rather than the outside in!

 

The process of delivery of Purpose is the Brand Experience.   Support is simple actually, its just not easy.  Commitment to coaching, not policing works and will drive the inspiration of the Brand message... 

Every point of contact with guests is driven on Purpose.  Panera's message includes the use of real silverware, real china.  Really?   How about real smiles and real, sincere, thank you's!  How about something as simple as a look in the eye and a sincere smile and real knowledge of product...

The Brand Promise Panera's leadership is making IS doable.  Not a doubt in my mind.   The question will be in Brand Execution, the Brand Experience of each guest with each team member of each Panera on a daily and multiple day part basis.

What we haven't heard is how Panera's going to execute.  If the bet is on you and I being impressed and restored because we get to eat, drink with real silverware, real china cups and plates, this is an interesting marketing program and the essence of marketing from the outside in.

 

Oh, by the way:

As an alternative simultaneous tracking, if you get to Arizona, check out Wildflower Bread Company... direct competitor to Panera, albeit smaller, and ready to grow fast... Wildflower just named one of the top 5 Brands to watch (QSR magazine June '11) is marketing from the inside out... whatever Panera's promising, Wildflower's doing AND MORE...  

 

Branding from the outside in, making a promise and not delivering is scary ground... if the Brand Promise made isn't delivered we as guests have basically been lied to; however when the marketing is driven from the inside out... the BRAND experience is so dynamic, so ON PURPOSE, word goes viral, word of mouth and word of mouse are resolutely driving the message outside the four walls, well success happens!   Mind you, success happens not by accident, it happens on Purpose!   

Regardless, I really wish Panera the best and love the potential and the band wagon being joined regarding Brand on Purpose!  The proof will be in the follow-through and support of each and every team member!

 

Confused?  Write me.  Disagree? Write me.  Agree?  Write me.   Wonder how to do "this on Purpose thing?" ... BE in touch!